What a wonderful feeling is to have a man who you started talking to in August turn out to be a gentleman. Ssshhh don’t tell him I am writing this, because he needs to keep that hard “man” exterior. This man really is a kind man, a loving man and cares about my little family. In such a short time, we have grown super close but what gets me about this man is how he treats me. The way this man treats me, makes me want to treat him even better.
I am juggling a lot of hats; motherhood, work at home mom, work outside of the home mom and now the girlfriend, but I try my best to ensure that he realizes how important he is to me, he does the same for me. I have honestly never felt so cared for in a secure way, I find myself with deep trust in this man like no other. I fear not about life or bills or anything, which is such a fantastic feeling! While we do not reside together, we are trying our best to ensure we have a solid foundation and we’ve only been seeing each other for a few months now; I feel confident that we have the goals in mind to reach to that destination of a little family residing together in the future.
For me, what I love best about my relationship with this man is that I know we both want to build a solid foundation based upon communication, trust and loyalty. He wants a woman who is loyal and honest among other things and I want a man who knows how to treat me like a woman. I don’t want to have to “wear the pants” all of the time, but I want my opinions heard. I don’t want to worry about whether the man in my life has a job or if he will sink me dry financially. While we may be pushing forward in seeing where life leads us while he has his place called “home” and I have my place called “home”; I am really enjoying seeing how well our mindsets and ideas morph together.
Not only am I physically attracted to this man, seriously, all I need to do is look at some of our photos and I melt. I am not sure what it is about my deep connection with him that makes me melt so, but I really love it. I am also fully engulfed in our work-at-home business mindset, you see, I have never had a man who was of a similar mindset as me with work at home option being an actual option for my partner and me. I have no doubt that our business ventures will lead us into financial success as they hit off the ground running!
I love that he cares about my children, and believes that a family is family, period. Just because I gave birth to these three children and they all have involved fathers does not exclude him from the ultimate role of father under our someday roof together. The children so far have loved being around him, he brings a nice balance to my world. Balance is something I work best having. I can only hope that his door opening, kind hearted and caring gestures continue and that he will forever feel that love I hold deep within my heart for him so that we continue on this path towards a future together.
I think that my man is the best because he simply put; is loyal, dedicated, hardworking and compassionate. My man does what is necessary as far as adulthood goes, but also can be the silly nut in the store or out in public with me where we leave people smiling. I feel that this man quite simply is my match …. but he often reminds me to stay grounded, we are only about a few months into this and still testing the waters in some ways. I know in my soul that the connection, the mindset and the dedication we both have towards similar future goals is what will keep us everlasting.
I will continue to share our adventures, my thoughts and such as we continue on in our path of the future; the memories we are making in the moments we have together are amazing no matter what the future has in mind for us.