Many ask how my daughter and I can still be so close after 12 years and during this difficult age of middle school girls drama, hormone changes and so forth. My answer is simply this, “because I talk to my kids as if they matter, because they do, and I treat them as I would any other human being on this Earth.” Due to the respect and trust I have worked hard to build with my trio, it seems our bond is closer than ever, even during these difficult hormone changing years with my first born. Sure, some days I feel like “who is this moody little tween that looks like my daughter”, but that doesn’t change the fact that she is still the same young lady I raised with …