Growing up my parents divorced somewhere around the time I was 9 or 10, and it wasn’t unexpected for them to split up. Some people seem to fall in love but then find they are truly not meant to be together, it is called life and people do change, life changes, and there are so many factors that play into “life” that can make the dream you once had change completely. I spent every other weekend with my father growing up and that was the shared custody plan. When I found myself with a four month old daughter and getting out of a relationship with someone I was not meant to be with (my daughter’s father) I knew in my heart I didn’t want my daughter to grow up with …