Your wedding day is the happiest day of your life, but what about the day you get engaged? It’s also extremely memorable, and it’s one that many people think about often. For some people, getting engaged is all about the big production. They want the flowers, the balloon, the band, and everything else that screams, “I’M GETTING MARRIED!!!” However, typical engagement ideas are so yesterday, and if you really want to set the standard for a fun wedding, you should opt for one of the unique engagement ideas instead.
- Ditch the Diamond
A diamond ring has always been an engagement must-have, but why? Sure, it’s expensive, but there’s no traditional meaning to a diamond that makes it any better than another stone. If you want to do something different, why not opt for a nice moissanite engagement ring or one made out of a sapphire, emerald, or other stone? These are all just as pretty, and they can make your engagement even more special.
Besides changing the stone, why not change the piece of jewelry? Sure, rings have been an engagement symbol for years, but they don’t have to be the only option for the future. If you don’t like rings or just want to do something different, why not opt for something else, such as a necklace or earrings? You could also ditch jewelry altogether and stick with something else that you love as the engagement symbol. The choice is ultimately up to you, so don’t be afraid to step outside the box.
- Ask Him
So many women out there dream of how their engagement will happen. The man will typically get on one knee, tell you that he cannot live without you, and ask you for your hand in marriage. Sure, this is nice, but there’s no rule that says it has to happen this way. If you’re ready to get married, why not ASK HIM to marry you? You can do the traditional down-on-one-knee thing, or you can simply ask. You can get him a symbol of engagement, such as a ring or watch, or you can opt for nothing. When you do the asking, it will certainly make for a fun story to tell your grandchildren one day.
- Keep it Simple
Thanks to social media, it seems as if everyone is always trying to compete with one another, and this is especially true when it comes to proposals. Instead of spending a fortune on a big production, why not just keep it simple? There’s something romantic about an intimate and honest (and often not-planned-out) engagement that makes it truly memorable. If the moment strikes, don’t hesitate to get down on one knee and do the asking, whether or not you’re actually prepared.
- Make it Extra Special
Sometimes it’s not about the big production you put on to make the engagement happen, but about the symbolism or tradition behind it. For instance, why not find out how her dad proposed to her mom. Then, reenact this by proposing in the same way, at the same place, on the same day, or whatever you can actually make happen. If that’s not possible, try making it special in any other way. For instance, maybe you can do something that involves other important members of her family, or maybe it can be something special between the two of you, such as where you first met, had your first kiss, went on your first date, etc.
Proposals are a big step in life, but nothing says that you have to do it the same way it’s been done before. The type of proposal will have no influence in the success of your marriage, so use these tips to step outside the box and make it one that the two of you will always remember.
These are all great ideas. A proposal is one of the biggest things that will ever happen to any of us. Make it memorable!
Aww, I love these ideas. Such cute and fun ideas that would work for any couple.
I hope when I am proposed to, it will something special and romantic. I like thinking outside of the box.
Great tips for engagements! Getting engaged is such a memorable time, you want it to be perfect. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to do everything everyone else does, like have a big diamond.
I love the idea of switching up the classic engagement scenario. My husband and I were kind of lame and basically mutually decided to get married. We will celebrate ten years together next month!
My husband proposed to me in the park where we went on our first date! We had gone to a really expensive restaurant earlier that week and he didn’t propose there, so I was really shocked when he proposed during our picnic lunch!
I am starting to see more and more girls take the step to ask their man to marry them. I think that is really cool. My last married, his daughter asked me “will you marry us?” It was super cute.
When my husband proposed to me, one of the first things that I ask him afterwards was how much he paid for the engagement ring. I was happy to find out that he didn’t go in debt for it. I would not have appreciated that. I do think sometimes less is more. This was one of those times.
I think it’s great to hear that more and more girls are willing to propose. Who says that the man should be the one to ask? These are great ideas!
I love these ideas for engagements! It’s nice to stray away from tradition and just do things the way you and your significant other want to do it. Make your own traditions this way!
Love all your tips here! Nothing can be more romantic when you see the sincerity from your loved one’s eyes.
My husband ditched the diamond. I was thankful for that!!
Such great ideas! We didn’t do the traditional he ask…. we talked about it and then we got the ring lol. It wasn’t a big deal, but that was over 10 years ago now and I think I would feel differently now and want something special!
I just wonder what the man’s reaction would be if it would be the woman who’d drop the question. I’d probably do that on our Golden Wedding anniversary. 🙂
What interesting ideas! I actually am not ok with a woman proposing just not right…but the other ideas are nice. I was just thinking it would be nice to finally find a great guy who would propose to me one day so keeping my hopes up!
Oh, this is so interesting. Lovely ideas! These are so unique!
You’re right, with social media in play, people are now competing with each other! It’s important to think about what’s special for the both of you, it could be really simple but still romantic for you both.
I actually asked my husband to marry me. I just could not wait anymore! He was taking so long, I could not stand it!
These tips are so much fun! I wish some of these ideas were around when I got married!
I think the problem with most couples with no.2 issues stems from the fact that the man has to be financially ready to be the default bread winner. It can really work both ways, and in my opinion it doesn’t matter who goes first and when, ultimately both will feel it.