By brandyellen on May 18, 2012
Each and every morning at my house goes something like this;
Alarm finally wakes me, after dinging for 15 minutes.
I hit snooze, multiple times.
Ki comes in to wake me.
Boys wake up and come in to my room demanding breakfast.
Finally I drag my butt out of bed to get them ready for school.
However, one fine morning after going to sleep around one in the morning, I woke up wide awake after a really odd, but life like dream to find that my sons were talking. I glanced over at my video and audio monitor to see that both boys were on top of the bunk bed just hanging out.
I slowly closed my eyes.
Then at 6:38am I hear “I bet you can’t jump off the top bunk bed” and “I can, I not scared” … that would be the five year old son daring the “I have no fear” three year old to jump off of the top bunk bed.
I jump out of bed, suddenly more awake than I was a moment ago.
Pressing the microphone button on the audio & video monitor I inform the boys that they best not jump off of that bed and that I am coming down to get them. Of course my morning scratchy voice makes them think that Daddy is coming because apparently I sound like a man in the morning.
The boys start laughing, saying “daddy is coming, quick jump off the bed”.
I race down the stairs trying not to slip down them in my slipper socks and am yelling that they best not dare jump off of that bed and that I am coming. I walk into their room to find that they want to leap, without notice, off of top bunk bed into my arms.
If that doesn’t wake a parent up, I don’t know what else would. I love my boys, but in all honesty, I was not prepared for the things that happen while raising these little boys.
Posted in Brandy's Life, children | Tagged Bed, Bedroom, bloggers, Bunk bed, Child, children, Furniture, Glossary of chess, Mattress, mom blogger in NH, mommy blogger, nh family blogging, NH mom Blog, NH mommy |
By brandyellen on May 18, 2012
The modern workplace is safer than it has ever been, and part of the reason for this is that in recent years many businesses have chosen to make a concerted effort when it comes to health and safety education and training.
The health of a workforce is down to the employer supplying the necessary equipment, conditions, and training to ensure a safe working environment. Employees have a duty of care to themselves and their colleagues, and need to ensure that they use equipment properly and follow all instructions and training provided to them by their employers.
Key areas for health and safety training
There are several key areas that should to be considered when planning health and safety training for a business.
Fire: Fire safety is a very important consideration no matter what the size of your premises. You should ensure that there are regular fire drills, and all members of staff should be familiar with the emergency exits and all procedures connected with safe evacuation of the building in the event of a fire.
Hazardous materials: If your business involves the handling of chemicals or other hazardous materials, proper training in the safe handling and use of hazardous substances is vital. Everyone who works with these substances needs to be aware of the specific dangers associated with any material, as well as how different substances react with each other. The proper storage of hazardous materials is another area that must be considered when a training plan is being implemented. When dealing with hazardous materials, formal training and qualifications may be required to ensure that the relevant staff members have a complete understanding of all of the above concerns.
Electrical: Electrical safety is another key part of most health and safety training programmes. Every workplace will have electrical equipment and it is important that this equipment is regularly tested and maintained to the highest standards. Staff should be instructed on the safe operation of all electrical equipment.
Machinery: Working with any type of machinery requires proper education and training. Whether the machinery in question is part of a production line, a specific type of vehicle, or a hoist or lift the workers operating them need to be aware of the hazards they present to both themselves and to other people in the area where the machinery is being used.
An awareness of general hazards is also crucial to the operation of a safe workplace. Tripping hazards, the handling of heavy goods, proper disposal of waste and garbage, and the storage of non-hazardous materials are for the most part not complicated or dangerous, but employees still need to be aware of any potential hazards and perform these tasks correctly.
Records and audits
No matter the industry, keeping clear and concise records is crucial; complete records should be kept of any training given to staff, and the maintenance of electrical and mechanical equipment. Should there be an incident or accident, a full investigation should be performed to determine the cause(s) as soon as possible and a report should then be generated detailing why the incident occurred and what steps have been taken to ensure that further incidents will be avoided.
Regular health and safety audits are also crucial in helping to ensure a safe workplace. They can be carried out by trained staff within an organization or by individuals brought in from outside the company who have specific expertise in health and safety. These audits help to focus managers and employees on keeping the workplace as safe as possible, and it is important that any recommendations made as the result of an audit are carried out as quickly and thoroughly and possible.
Posted in Guest Bloggers | Tagged business, Dangerous goods, Electrical equipment, Employment, Health, Health & Safety, Occupational Health & Safety, Workplace safety |
By brandyellen on May 17, 2012
I am a night owl, always have been and probably always will be. It’s just something about the quiet night time hours that really assists in allowing your mind to wander and then settle upon those questions you have through out the day about where life is heading. Once my children are fast asleep I find it difficult to settle down to bed right away, usually I am awake past midnight writing blog posts or, as of recently, reading a good book.

Now that both of my sons actually sleep through the night on a more consistent basis I am able to indulge in some “me time” once they are asleep in their bunk bed. Late night is the time when my mind wanders and I start writing parts of my various manuscripts for my some day to be published novels and my creative side really comes out during such silent times. I just wish my creative night owl mind could wrap around one manuscript so that I didn’t have to weed through various novel topics and could truly finish one someday soon.
No matter what happens during the day, no matter how exhausted I am, once my kids are asleep this Mama gets a burst of energy that refuses to allow my mind to settle down to bed at a decent hour.
Posted in Brandy's Life | Tagged Arts, Batman, Caffeine, NightOwl, owl, Research, Stanford University, Writers Resources |
By brandyellen on May 17, 2012
Have you heard of the visually stimulating social networking site Pinterest yet? If not then you should really get on board with it. Pinterest is one of those sites that I joined, with an invite from a fellow Twitter friend, just to realize that I was not quite sure how to utilize this site to my blog marketing advantage. After hearing so many bloggers that have had much success in using Pinterest, I knew I had to figure out how to use this site in the most efficient way possible. I needed to know the ins and outs, how to connect with the right people and the proper way to network within Pinterest, that is when I found out about Kelby Carr’s book “Pinterest for Dummies“.

I met Kelby Carr last year at her conference, Type-A Parent Conference and I must admit she is an amazing individual. I much enjoyed spending quality time with her outside on off moments during the conference schedule. This is a woman of much intelligence and one thing she really “gets” is social media and bloggers, so having a chance to review her book Pinterest for Dummies is certainly an honor.
Pinterest for Dummies really helps a person, like me, who has zero clue how to use this social networking website, move forward in a positive direction. From the start of having your own Pinterest profile to how to use Pinterest for your own events, crafting and cooking adventures; this book helps with it all. Not only will you be able to utilize Pinterest to the best possible level but after reading Pinterest for Dummies you will also know who to connect with, ways you can use Pinterest beyond your blog and how to use networking to engage others in this visually stimulating social network site.
Do you think Pinterest is strictly for bloggers and business owners? Well you are incorrect. I have happened upon every day parents using Pinterest to learn about new recipes or craft ideas. These every day parents frequent Pinterest.com as a way to assist in planning their meal time and family craft time. I personally enjoy using Pinterest to find quotes that help my mind stay focused on the positive. I share pictures of the outdoor wildlife that frequents my home and recipes that I happen upon in the blogging world to bookmark for future use.
If you are looking to find a way to use Pinterest but have come to a loss on how to best learn it and learn it quickly, then I recommend you get Pinterest for Dummies, an easy to read, step-by-step guide on how to get your account setup, use community features and jump into the Pinterest visual stimulation in a way that helps you in life, blogging and business.
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Posted in Blogging Support, giveaways, Product Reviews, Work At Home Support | Tagged Blogging Support, business, Dummie, Kelby Carr, Pinterest, Pinterest for Dummies, social media, Social network, Social network service, twitter, visual social network |
By brandyellen on May 16, 2012
Watching my children run around outdoors, chasing each other smiling, I see many personality traits in each child that reflect my own self. The leadership qualities of my oldest, the anxiety and sensitivity in my middle child, and the loud mouth three year old. Each of my children have some part of a personality characteristic that I can relate back to my own self either now or in the past as a young child.

While watching my children and smiling at each recognition of my own self within them, I find myself wondering what parts of me are much like my father and my mother. Which personality traits can I say were given to me through my mother or through my father? All too often you will hear me say I am nothing like that of my own parents, not 100% anyways, however, the older I grew, the more I experience as an adult, I now see a little bit of each of my elders within myself.

I attribute my various personality traits and things I do to one or both of my parents on a regular basis. I also have a unique third part of me that was simply created on my own, during my journey of finding my own self. You see, each person is the somewhat perfect blend of their two parents, however, they still need to find that third part of them that completes them; who they are within in, who they can be to make their world the most successful for their own self.

Whatever characteristics I have, whoever I can point a finger at and say “wow that came from them”, it doesn’t really matter. All that matters is my point that each of my own children and my own self are the somewhat perfect blend of two parents and I will forever enjoy watching my children grow older and see who they become as an individual when they are adults having their own families.
Who do your children take after the most?
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Posted in Brandy's Life, children | Tagged Birth order, Blogging in NH, Child, family, gene traits, home, mother, mothers day, NH Blog, NH mom blogger, NH mommy, Parent, personailty, Trait theory |
By brandyellen on May 16, 2012
Memorial Day is just around the corner and this is the most popular weekend for families to get out camping and go swimming in ponds or their newly opened pool. Our family loves spending time in the pool over in Vermont, at what I call our “family farm”, it’s where my Dad lives.

National Learn to Swim day is just coming prior to Memorial Day; on May 19th SwimWays will be gearing up with an event at the Greenbrier Family YMCA in Chesapeake, VA from 1-3 p.m. The event will be the grand opening of the YMCA’s outdoor pool for the summer, open to members and non-members, and feature a water safety clinic for local families. With Memorial Day being the unofficial start to Summer, Swimways wants to make sure that children can be ready to swim and be safe in the pool or other favorite swimming location this year.

May is the official National Water Safety month which is why SwimWays feels that May 19th is a great day to encourage more water safety with children prior to the unofficial start of Summer; Memorial Day. You see the Red Cross states that;
- Drowning is the second leading cause of unintentional injury-related death for children ages 1 to 14 years old.
- Statistics show that children ages 1 to 4 drown most often in home swimming pools.
- Children were often out of sight less than 5 minutes and under the care of one or both parents at the time of many home pool drownings.
These statistics scare me but in all honesty they are true. I know all too well, through a long ago experience with my little sister, that a child can go under water in a matter of mere seconds. If your child does not know how to swim or does not have the proper floating devices on, then they could potentially drown. This is why I am usually in the pool with my children at all times, usually within an arms reach or I am right next to the pool. I also make sure that my children have some form of floating device on or in use by them.
I don’t even leave my kids for a moment to go pee, I always have another family member right there keeping two eyes on them for it’s only a matter of seconds for one of my children to get overly confident or slip and go under. If you are like me and want to make sure that your kids are water safe, then try to read some of these articles that can assist you in learning more about being water safe:
Do not forget, if you are in the Chesapeake, VA area then you should try to attend SwimWays event at the Greenbrier Family YMCA from 1-3pm on May 19, 2012.
“I am a SwimWays Team Ambassador and receive free products as a way to share my thoughts and experiences with SwimWays products & to increase knowledge of water safety this Summer season. All opinions are my own.”
Posted in Brand Ambassador, children, SwimWays Swim Team | Tagged Drowning, family, Memorial Day, SwimWays, SwimWays Team Ambassador, vermont, Water safety in New Zealand, YMCA |
By brandyellen on May 15, 2012
By definition, a house is a building which is used for human habitation. Transforming a house into a home is something that requires time and patience but it does not require the expensive services of an interior designer. Instead, successfully reflecting the collective personality of the inhabitants – positive attitude, lifestyle preferences, or a sense of fun, perhaps – can turn a relatively ordinary place of residence into a warm and welcoming home environment.
Color me comfy
Whether living solo or in a family group, the colors in a home, coupled with the lighting, serve to create the underlying atmosphere. One of the basic rules about the use of color on walls, floors, and ceilings which holds true in most circumstances is that darker colors can look great in larger spaces, but will make a small room look even smaller. Should being confined to magnolia and pale shades in a smaller home be undesirable, choose a feature wall – perhaps surrounding a fireplace – to paint in a striking, contrasting color. Paint suppliers offer portable paint palettes with color ranges, small tester cans for experimenting before you make your final choice, and online facilities where a photo of a real room can be uploaded and virtually colored using the available paint colors. This part of turning a house into a home can be fun as well as rewarding.
Some rooms will benefit from bright shades and stimulating hues, such as playrooms and dens, as these are spaces which encourage energy and alertness. Bedrooms are better suited to muted, calming colors that are restful, and the clever use of adjustable lighting in dining and living areas can help turn bright, lively daytime spaces into relaxed, even romantic, evening retreats.
Tread carefully
Floors and floor coverings are important when it comes to integrating different spaces within the home; the architectural principle of form following function indicates that surfaces should suit uses – very few people would opt for deep pile carpet in the kitchen, for example. In bedrooms, soft wall-to-wall carpeting is inviting, as are hardwood floors in soft tones with contrasting shag rugs.
Expressions hardwood floors are great for almost any space and, along with looking beautiful, they are particularly useful for heavy-duty areas such as main living spaces and entrance halls; they are also suitable for families where dust mite allergies might be an issue, as they are easier to keep clean than rugs or carpets.
Bits and pieces
What furniture and accessories to include in a room will generally be a matter of personal taste, and in most cases there will be a need to combine pieces which have been gathered over time with new pieces – whether contemporary or traditional in design. A simple rule of thumb is not to buy furniture that is too big for a room, or out of keeping with its shape and style. Some people opt for a themed approach to their rooms and this is fine as long as the result does not create a lifeless, sterile environment or make the room look like a throwback to the 1950s – unless, of course, that is the look you are going for.
Finally, the use of carefully chosen or cherished paintings, sculpture, wall art, feature plants and other greenery will provide the artistic touches and soften the delineations of the rest of the décor in a well cared for home.
Posted in Miscellaneous | Tagged Carpet, Color, Floor, home, Home & Garden, Interior design, Paint, Wood flooring |
By brandyellen on May 14, 2012
When my now nine year old daughter was born I didn’t have a video camera, it was simply disposable cameras and the occasional cell phone picture taken by family or professional photos taken once per year. As my family grew larger, the need for a video camera arose and one Christmas Santa brought me a very nice video camera, the only problem was I couldn’t save the videos to my server computer at home for I didn’t have the correct connections. Having back ups on my home server is important to me, and so I moved from video camera to photographs.

Capturing my children playing tag is easy to get on camera and helps you revisit the story in a creative way. I much enjoy showing my children the photographs of them that were taken during our weekend family times because then they can tell me their own version of “what was going on in this picture”, it proves to be a fun family moment. Not only do I work on preserving family memories in photographs but I also create fun family story telling moments.

I love following my family on a long walk through a trail and just snapping random photos. When I get home and see the wonderful images, I can actually relive that moment by watching the pictures through a slideshow. My boys really enjoy rocks and one skill their Dad has that they have yet to master is skipping rocks. Most times we end up on a trail near a river or pond and this allows father and sons to practice their rock skipping skills. Preserving these father son memories will be important to the boys as they grow older for they will be able to look back and see just how involved we all were as a family unit.

Why do I prefer photos over video? Because a picture is worth a thousand words. One can create their own memory revisiting photographs, but in video format the story is already laid out with audio and video.
How do you prefer to capture memories with your family?
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Posted in Brand Ambassador, Brandy's Life, YesVideo Ambassador | Tagged christmas, dvd, family, Photograph, Photography, twitter, Video, Video camera |
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