If you’re worried that your relationship isn’t going to last, this is already a warning sign that you have trouble in your relationship. Maybe you’re just looking at this out of curiosity. Whatever your reasons, if you notice any of the following signs too, it could mean the end of your relationship.
You Don’t Have Lives Away From Each Other
You and your partner should not be living in each other’s pockets. It isn’t realistic or healthy, and it just shows that you have no other meaning or purpose in life. You both need to have passions and purposes if you want fulfilled lives and relationships. If you spend too much time together, chances are your relationship will turn sour faster as you begin to notice the things that annoy you quicker. Your only passion should not be one another.
You Argue About Doing Your Own Thing
If one of you does want to do their own thing and the other one is always causing arguments about it, this is the sign of a deeper issue. Is the one that starts the arguments insecure? Why are they so concerned with you doing your own thing? Is it trust? You should never feel bad for living your life. Working on issues like this is important, but if you can’t it isn’t your job to sacrifice your life.
You Started Arguing Early On
Arguments are normal once you’ve been together a while. They give you a chance to each work through your issues too, so you can eventually become a stronger couple. That is, of course, as long as you both remember that an argument should be about coming to a happy conclusion for both parties. It isn’t about point scoring. However, if you argue a lot and you’re still not all that far into the relationship, this could spell trouble.
You’re Not Friends
You and your partner do need to be friends if you’re going to be forever. Forever is a long time to be with somebody that you’re not friends with.
You Criticize One Another
Criticizing one another is usually just a way of projecting your insecurities and issues onto somebody else. You shouldn’t criticise one another, as this can slowly chip away at your relationship. It can be very hurtful too, so watch what you say too and around your partner. Just because you’re comfortable with them does not mean you should be able to speak to them however you want. If you feel like your partner is disrespectful to you more often than not, maybe you should look at an online divorce website to decide what you want.
No Motivation To Improve The Relationship
Relationships change and evolve as the people in them do. This means that sometimes, you both will need to work towards improving the relationship. If neither of you have motivation to improve the relationship, then this is a bad sign.
These signs don’t always mean your relationship won’t last, but they are a good indicator that you have problems in your relationship. Leave your own thoughts below. Come back soon!