You have found the love of your life, whether you have been married for years or new into this relationship scene, it’s just the feeling of pure connection that places no doubt upon you that this is the person for you. This is an exciting time, but it also opens the doors to allowing you to be vulnerable, love really is a vulnerable emotion, because it can hurt deeply when that love is destroyed due to deceit.
The key to fully loving your relationship and keeping your in-love feeling is to continue to show love to your partner through actions, every time you exhibit a loving action to your partner it encourages the love to be returned tenfold. It’s just how the world works – a balance so to speak. Evil balances good and kindness begot kindness; don’t believe me? Give it a try, do something that shouts you love your partner every day for a week, then watch as your love grows tremendously because you will be encouraging your partner to show you love in return without begging for it.
Every relationship will come with some baggage, our brains are just like computers with cached responses based on prior experiences, no matter how much a person may be over their past, it can still trigger up a response here and there. Our brains are just simple mechanisms who want to find the quickest response to a situation, and that is one of our wonderful imperfections as a human being. What you need to do in order to keep your soul mate is to learn to let go … let go of that response your brain triggers right away. Step back from the situation, breath and think with your logical brain.
When you are able to step back and start looking at your soul-mate relationship in a realistic and logical way, you will only reap major benefits because your partner will love you more for being confident in the connection you hold. What most people don’t realize is that the more you mistrust or latch out based on prior experiences, the more you set your relationship up for failure.
If you have found the one for you, that person that simply compliments your life in so many ways that it eases your mind and allows you to fully be who you are to your core, then let go of those past experiences and give your relationship an honest chance … love your partner for what you two have together, not what others have done to damage your heart in the past.