I work for what I have and I live within my means, even when I worked full time and had no children I still lived within my means. I haven’t ever been a big spender and I have always worked for what I have. When the time comes that I truly need help it’s hard for me to even ask, normally you will find that I work my butt off to make what I need for the things that need to be done in my life. On the rare occasion I truly need a little help I usually pay it back in some form if not the original form to ensure that give and take is used, not just take take take. This is my nature, this is who I …